Father, please have your way in this situation. It is important for a child to know and exchange with both of her parents...however it is equally if not more important that they be safe and spiritually grounded. Please Father in your wisdom and mercy lead these two sets of parents to sit down and reason together rather than this situation turning into a battleground. Without a doubt all will lose if that happens. Lead the adults in this situation to prayerfully consider openly discussing this matter. If the birth mother is not in Christ...break her heart of stone Father and help her to see that she needs a savior. Open her mouth to ask Jesus to dwell in her heart. Trouble night and day until she utters that request from the bottom of her soul. Please put a protective hedge around this Emily Father...let nothing unwholesome enter in. Build her up in the faith and help her to seek your face daily. We know that you are a great God who can do anything but fail...Father bring wisdom, harmony and peace to this blended family and let all work together for good. In Jesus name...Amen!