Father...I can feel the fear and stress in this woman's words. Please remind this woman that as your child...you have not given us a spirit of fear but of power...and that we can grow that power by studying your word...acting in faith on your promises and loving in an Agape manner everyone we touch. When a man gets off of the right path...yes we can discuss it...but if he refuses to hear...we need to stop talking and start praying. Surround him with prayer for his heart to be changed, for him to re-dedicate his life to God if saved...or recognize his need for a savior if he is not saved and to invite Christ into his life. We also need to work on ourselves and our relationship with the Father...help this woman to through prayer, supplication and action to become the Woman of God you mean for her to be. Let her use as her template Proverbs:31 and leave this man in your capable hands. Father put a hedge around this family that nothing that is not of you can enter in...and guide them as they work to reconcile. Remind them both that the vows of fidelity they made were not only to each other but more importantly to you. Let them become filled with fervor to keep their promises if it be in your will. In Jesus name...Amen!