Father...it is so hard to deal with so many issues as life sometimes brings us. Comfort this man in this difficult time. Help him to know how to pray. Let him seek your will. While you hate divorce...perhaps there is a greater need at this moment in his wife's life. Break her heart of stone and let her come to know that she needs a savior. Humble her down Father until she invites you into her heart. Deliver her from her alcoholism and surround her with those who can help her to achieve sobriety. Put a hedge around the children Lord that they might be safe. Bring clarity to this wife's mind and allow her to see the pain she is causing her husband and her children...and bring her to the point of surrender to your will Lord. In your mercy do what is needed to restore this marriage. In Jesus name...Amen!