My Sister,

There is a book I would recommend that you read. It is called Who Switched Off My Brain by Dr. Carolyn Leaf. Dr. Leaf is both a neuroscientist and a minister of the Gospel and the book is about our thought lives, how they are real and how they effect our spiritual life and our physical well being. Most of all the book is helpful in simply teaching us how to banish wrongful, hurtful thoughts from our minds. I am working through it now and finding it very helpful.

Father,
Help this woman to be free of the hurts of the past. Help her to stop replaying words and actions that have grieved her as they do not promote healing and well being, but rather become the planting ground for anger and upset and conflict in her relationship with her husband. Help her husband to understand that as the spiritual leader of his home, he is expected by God to lead as Jesus would...responsibly, fairly, lovingly and with compassion. Help him to trust his wife and share all things with her...even when he is fearful of decisions he has made. Rebuild the foundation of this marriage on your word Father...in spirit and truth.

In the name of Jesus,
Amen!