Chris and I have been married for almost 2 years (2 years on augest 19th) and he told me about 7 months ago that he wasnt happy and that maybe were wernt right for eachother we said we were going to work on things but maybe didnt try as hard as we should have I thought things were fine untill 7 days ago when he told me he was unhappy and wanted a divorce... we wernt sure what to do and I moved out the next day we spent saturday night apart I felt like I was going to die I was so hurt and not sure what to do or how to pick up the peices he called me sunday night and asked me to come over so we could talk he said he wanted me to stay and try to work things out but he still wasnt happy and still didnt "know" if we were ment to be and didnt know if he see's me in his futer and that he loves me but dosnt think he is "IN Love" with me anymore he said he loves me like a friend not as his wife or lover I so badley want to work things out I dont feel I could live without him I'm not sure what to say or do I feel so hurt but glad he asked me to come bac
he said the problems are my family he cant stand them and they cant stand him. him and my dad had a falling out a year ago and havent spoken since also he said I'm to messy and dont want to do the things he wants to do and i dont know... I'm trying so hard he said he dosnt want counceling and I asked if I could make him an appt to get on some meds for depresion but he wasnt sure about that either
the first night we were appart he stayed at his sisters beacause they were throwing his mom a surprize birthday party I feel like he was having a party having fun while I was sobing with my heart broken moving out of our house I feel like he should have been just as hurt and in pain as I was! then when he came home the next day and my stuff was gone and he was alone he wanred me back I just want to be sure that he wants me back beacause he loves me and wants it to work and not just to make him feel better while he's alone in the house..... but still to this day 7 days later he says he still dosnt love me and isnt any happier.....
he said he didnt know who he was before and has now figers out who he is and who I am and were just not good together... I feel so hurt.... so broken all I want to do all day is cry..... i feel like I'm dying