Please pray for my family, my husband is an alcoholic and it is tearing our family apart. I am so stressed from the lies, drinking, cruelty and his anger that I am worn down spiritually, mentally and physically. We have been married for 20 years and I never thought that we wold be in this situation. The man I married was a christian and is nothing like the man that he is now. Somedays I become physically ill just afraid of his drinking and all the damage that it has caused us and his unlovinging attitude that he has for all of the hurt that brought down on us. He will not admit that he has a problem he just says that I hold him to some higher standard that he cannot possibly match up to. All that I have asked of him is to get help and get sober and that is not an impossible standard. I don't know what to do and I don't know is God hears my cries anymore and I don't know if any of this is my fault.