Lord it is hard to forgive a man that is unfaithful. Help this man to turn from his sin so he can be reconcilled to his family. The first step is to repent and turn and I pray that he will. I pray that his family will be more important to him than his behaviours. If he does not change he will loose them all. Lord give him a wake up call so that he will get a kick start on changing his life. Perhaps he needs councelling or some sort of support system. Give him christian friends who will encourage him to do the right thing. If necessary Lord would you break him. Most of all Lord lead him to you for salvation. In Jesus name I pray. Give the wife a spirit of forgiveness, it is absolultly necessary for trust to be re-established. In Jesus name I pray.