The man i have been seeing for awhile refuses to remain monogomous to me, and is afraid to commit. I love him so much, i have never felt this way about another person in my life. He doesnt feel the same way, or he doesn't show it(we havent ever really talked about it lately). He is starting to drift farther and farther away from me and i cant take it.Please pray that he gets over his fear of commitment,(and his fear of a 4 year age difference)and that he will fall in love with me and we can live happily ever after. I cannot live without him