Please pray for a breakthrough in our marriage.

My wife of 10 years had been very cold, distant, and isolated herself from my for many years. The more I tried to please her or talk to her, the more she withdrew from me. 5 moths ago she told me she didn't love me. We had a long talk. I was in shock. She said she wanted to split up. I told her that I still loved her and splitting would go against everything I believe in. We agreed to stay together for up to a year because of financial reasons. Since then, I backed off from her a bit and we started to talk more and do some things together. But it's like a roller coaster, one week we talk every day, the next week she isolates herself from me. I feel so insecure in my relationship with her. I pray every day that God can help me be the change agent because I know I can't change her. I desperately want our mariage to heal and grow. I just don't know what to do. I'm afraid of having a serious conversation for fear of pushing her to want to leave.

Please pray that God gives us both the wisdom, strenghth and courage to do the right thing.