I have a hard time with having my stepson living at home. i'm trying to find work while his mother allows him to do nothing ,including helping around the house. I don't know what to do for him personaly, and it takes everything i got not to say some very ungodly things in anger that i know is not out of love. I have been waiting like 4 years for this to change. there are times when i'd like him to get arrested just so i don't have to see him. i know this sounds strange but at least he would be doing somthing rather than nothing. I just ask for you to pray over this , and thank you