Guest Wrote:My husband had an affair. //// He says he cares alot about me and blames me for his infidelity and the way he feels. He says I pushed him away.

He is an unrepentent adulterer who also refuses to accept responsibility for his actions and blames them on you. I don't see how you could ever trust him again since he is likely to do it again since he says it's all your fault.

I wonder how God is supposed to rebuild a marriage when only one of the two people in it is worthy of marriage..... I pray that God will comfort you and show you the path to a better life. amen