My husband and I separated on 1/16/10 and we have a 5yr & 7yr old. Since we have been together he has lied to me on several occasions and has been sneaking looking at porn (when he said he would stop) and I think he might have a gambling problem. We would of been celebrating 8 years of marriage in April and a little over 10 years together. I still love him but its hard when i can't get him to communicate and lay everything on the table so we can move on to the next chapter of our life. My dad died Feb.25,2009 and i've just been emotional and in need of prayer.