Me (becky)and my husband(Hank) are going through terrible times, he is a alcohilc & gets violent alot, About 3wks ago he came home around 10pm and about 2 minutes after<br>him comming home a friend of mine from work called, she has never called before But anyways she did and he really flipped out getting violent and spitting on me, calling me a whore and that she was calling probably for a guy. I called<br>my mom she came and then he kept telling her to leave, she wouldnt for fear of what he would do after she left, they had many words, he said many disrespetful things to<br>her and then he started on our 12yr old son I called the cops, I really did not want to but felt really scared of him and did not know what else to do, and he finally<br>stopped and went to his dads, but came back home the same day and the same thing over and over since then, everyday when I get home from work we fight, and he always get violent and spits on me and dumps water or whatever is around on me, or locks me outside for hrs. Now he hates my mother and told me to choose either her or him and I cant choose like that, she is my mother and I will never say the I wont talk to her anymore, What do I do? Am I wrong? He says that the bible says put you husband overyour parents. I cannot choose between the 2. please pray for me and my family and also for saftey form him hurting me. Saturday in between our fight I had said that I wanted my grnadma to move in, Which I have never said anything to my grandma about, But my mom said that she cannot be by herself anymore-she is 90yrs old now. And he instanly got mad and now that is all he keeps saying to me, he sayd taht I didnt even ask him and it really just same out wrong when I said it I am just also so worried about her going to a nursing home, and I tried to tell him that I didnt mean she actually was I really just wish she was and he is so mad about it the we fight an it just physical. He scares me all the time, I am constantly worried even if we are have a good hr or 2 for fear of when the next thing he thinks about is coming. Please pray for Me and my family