Me (becky)and my husband(Hank) are going through terrible times, he is a alcohilc & gets violent alot, About 2wks ago he came home around 10pm and about 2 minutes after him comming home a friend of mine from work called, she ahs never called before But anyways she did and he really flipped out getting violent and spitting on me, I called my mom she came and then he kept telling her to leave, she wouldnt for fear of what he would do after she left, they had many words, he said many disrespetful things to her and then he started on our 12yr old son I called the cops, I really did not want to but felt really scared of him and did not know what else to do, and he finally stopped and went to his dads, but came back home the same day and the same thing over and over since then, everyday when I get home from work we fight, and he always get violent and spits on me and dumps water or whatever is around on me, or locks me outside for hrs. Now he hates my mother and told me to choose either her or him and I cant choose like that, she is my mother and I will never say the I wont talk to her anymore, What do I do? Am I wrong? He says that the bible says put you husband over your parents. Today was the deadline that he gave me, to choose and I am scared to even go home, I cannot choose between the 2. please pray for me and my family and also for saftey form him hurting me