Father I will lift this person to the throne of your grace, ask to reach him at his deepest need. Lord we know that anger is not the first emotion. It is hurt, pain and unforgiveness are often the first emotion. With Esau you asked him why are you so downcast? So we know that it was regret and hurt, then came jealousy, then anger, then rage and then murder. Lord deal with us gently knowing that some and all of these emotions we deal with and struggle with. They stem from many sources. Heal us O Lord, give us understanding, wisdom, patience, kindness and peace, with your unconditional love that binds it all together. In Jesus name, Amen.