I'm a freshman in college and I met someone. At first he was sweet to me and all of a sudden he started acting mean. At first I couldn't understand why but now I know. He was mistreated in the past and still is. Alot of people especially females have been so mean to him and he acts mean but that's not his true self. No matter how mean he is I still treat him nice because that's whats in my heart . I care about him alot and I just want him to know that I would never mistreat him. Deep down inside I can see that he's hurting and its hurting me. I been praying for our relationship to get better. And for him to give me a chance to take care of him. I care to much to be mean to him and hurt him. I've been hurt myself. In my heart I feel like things will be get better. They have to get worse before they get better. But I wish he would go back to his sweet self and see the light and see that I will treat him right. I always try to talk to him because i enjoy helping people and i just want to know whats really wrong and he always says we'll talk but it never works out. He stares at me in practice and I can tell he's hurting but he won't speak to me. It hurts me to my heart to see him like this. I need prayer and guidance. Thank you and God Bless!