God I pray in agreement with this husband. I can understand your pain as I am in a similar situation. My husband is living with his exgirlfriend and he joined her church and they live like they are husband and wife and they believe it is GOds plan. Satan is so clever to send counterfits. He uses a some truth in his deception. But he is still defeated through Jesus Christ our Lord who died on the cross. "God is not a God of confusion but a God of peace." 1Corinthians 14:33. I am going to take back everything that the devil has stolen from me by letting God take control of my life. My son has been in the hospital for 2 weeks now with emotional problems due to all of this. My finances are out of control. I am living with my parents trying to save money which something always comes up to eat up the money. I am grateful for a place to stay, but I am 48 yrs old and feel like my life is falling apart. I trust God and continue to obey him and praise him through all of this. I refuse to let the enemy take my family. God gave me my husband and my son and I will not let go of them no matter what. And it is hard. My son hates me because I brought him to the hospital because he repeatedly said he wants to die. He hates his father and tells me its either him or his father. His father sways back and forth. Says he loves me and we are going to start all over. THen the next moment he is saying he is going to be with the exgirlfriend. I believe he is in a midlife crisis and the devil is decieving him with the ex-girlfriend because they are both of the same race and me and my husband are from different races. He feels it is easier because his family accepts her and not me. Many obstacles in our lives. God is still in control. You stand for your family. Keep quoting scripture about what God says about marriage. Encourage yourself because many people will tell you to move on but listen to God. Listen to what he tells you. Trust in him and let his will be done. I will pray for you and your family. Remember GOd is still in control no matter what. Trust him.