My husband and I have been married for 2 1/2 years and we are having problems. I recently found out that he's been talking with another woman over the phone, but he says it was nothing more than a friendship though he admits he was wrong and he stopped talking with her since. I feel as though he has had an emotional affair with this woman which hurts just as much as a physical affair. Aside from that, my husband has a serious case of bipolar disorder. Some times he feels like things are great and he loves his wife and child, but other times he feels confused and thinks the only way to fix the problems are to leave and run away from them. I truly love my husband and he says that he does still love me as well. Lately things have been worse than ever and the only thing he resorts to is threatening to leave and I'm afraid its going to end up happening. I try to tell him the devil is telling him lies that he is believing and he is not letting God inside of him. Unfortunately he is not as much of a believer as I am. I still have hope and faith that our marriage can be restored and that things are going to be just fine, but he does not. He has no faith in himself or anything else. He feels like he has mental issues with himself that he can not fix and that no one else can fix either. He does not want to go to counseling because he says it will not work for him. He feels that he doesn't want to continue hurting me and he says that he doesn't deserve me. He also has problems with alcohol and takes other medications as well that are not prescribed to him. I want more than anything for him to give his heart to God, but I know that I can not force him to do that which is why I'm here asking for help and prayers.