My husband told me that he wasn't sure if he wants to be married or not. Says he's not in love with the ex-girlfrnd and he is in love with me. But he is still staying at her apartment and makes sure he answers his phone when she calls. Its very strange almost like he is afraid of her. She yells at him and I asked him why do you let her yell at you and he says her bark is worst than her bite. He's married to me but he allows her to treat him that way and then he chauffers her around to work, shopping etc etc. I know I shouldn't look at this situation. I just can't figure it out. He says to me what about his feelings, all I care about is this marriage. He says I'm selfish. But he says he loves me. One day he says he knows he should be with me and work it out. Then the next day he is like Dr Jekyl and its all gloom and doom with me & him and he gave me 16yrs of his life and what about him. I guess I should just close my eyes & ears and just pray to God because I know what the word says and God hates divorce and I know biblically I have the right to divorce him (adultery) but I don't want to divorce him. Something inside tells me that he does love me or maybe I am selfish. All I know is what the word says so I will stand steadfast and keep my mouth shut, my eyes closed and my ears closed. PLease pray for me.