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Please pray for healing, forgiveness and reconciliation
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myt
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Please pray for healing, forgiveness and reconciliation
Please pray for healing, forgiveness and reconciliation between me and my ex-Dalton.
We met in Uni and we were friends for many years. We have been a couple for almost 2 years. Shortly after he found a new job in a new company, I found out that he was having a relationship with his colleague. I am not sure whether it was sexual...but definitely emotional due to all the sms that his colleague have been sending to him. I confronted him. He said he was sorry for his folly but didn't make an effort to avoid his colleague. It really affected our relationship. I felt very insecure and always fight with him over little things. Finally, we broke up when I suspected he crossed the line.
He left the company shortly after we broke up and no longer in contact with his ex-colleague. We have remain friends even after the break up and been meeting up for meals. I realise I really still love and care for him and want him back. Please pray for healing between us over all the hurtful events and words that was being said during that period of time. He said I should move on and he is not ready for relationship....but he still calls me out sometimes. I really love him and wish we could leave the past behind and start again. I am afraid to bring up the subject..just trying to give him space and time to deal with his issues.
He has also back slided from God. He leaves away from home. He is the middle child and from a broken family who always burden him with debts and financial problems. He has fallen out with them many times. I feel for him and please pray for the salvation of all his family members- parents and two siblings. Please pray for good christian friends/colleague who would bring him back to God. Pray that God will reveal Himself to Him and He will turn back to God. I sense he is very bitter, angry towards his family members...perhaps deep down he has not truly forgiven me for the hurtful things I said when i was hurt by what he did. I am truly sorry, I said it out of hurt, anger and feeling of being betrayed.
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| 07-08-2009 12:37 AM |
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Please pray for healing, forgiveness and reconciliation - myt - 07-08-2009 12:37 AM
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