Clarence Wrote:Can I reply with a little honest empathy here? Sexual curiosity has been one of my great thorns in the flesh for a long time. I think it traces back to many things, among them being lack of modesty in the home. I also had a very weak relationship with my father. I wonder if this man is fascinated with the act of seeing someone urinate or just seeing them in an immodest condition. Either way, he is not alone in such struggles. The greatest concern and prayer we need to offer now is that this is not a manifestation of a hidden homosexual problem. I struggled with this sin for many years myself and I am NOT proud of things I did with other males, especially when deep down inside I am sure I knew better.

I purposely use private toilet stalls anywhere I go to the rest room and do not go swimming or any place where there will be "natural" opportunities to look at the nakedness of other boys or men simply because of the guilt I will feel if I should, even innocently, do so.

I pray the Lord will help you deal with this in the right loving and forgiving way and that this fetish will not lead this man into further immorality as it very easily can. If this man is saved, let's trust God to help this man find a way to direct himself away from this. And pray for ME, too, as I know a lot of what this man struggles with as it relates to MY curiosity struggles.

Thanks to all who are praying for my husband. Thank you also, Clarence, for your openness and honesty. It is relieving to hear that he is not the only one who struggles with this. I have no worries about my husband having thoughts towards men, but when I was talking to my husband about this I mentioned what you said, about seeing people in a very private situation-of which he has not had much exposure to. His family was almost OVERLY modest, so he literally hasn't even been around his parents, brother or anyone in any situations that would get him used to private things. We will certainly be praying for you as well..........