I’m sorry to hear about the situation you’re facing in your marriage. I’ll be praying that the Lord will grant you wisdom as to how you should deal with your circumstances. Be assured of my prayers for your husband, Bruce, as well. A trained counselor can help you travel this rocky path and sort out the issues at hand. I also suggest that you seek the support of family and friends who can encourage you during this time. May God's grace and peace surround you, sustain you, and guard your heart and mind in the days ahead.