thank you for your kind words and a kind reminder that God is truth and go to him for advise. i just do not have many people in my life to talk to and not many experiences in life so sometimes i need to ask family or friends for help as i do not want to get hurt. i know sometimes life is not fair and things may not go your way but its nice to ask people who may have gone through the same thing

so thank you for your prayers. i am praying with all my heart, soul, spirit on this issue that God will truly shed the light on this issues. i pray that there is no where to hide that the truth be found out quickly and i can make the right decision