some places have financial aid/assitance i had a massive bill come my way and i said i could not afford it, the billing staff said i need to fill out paper work and show my w2 and paystub and sometimes the bill will get reduced. almost month later i got a letter saying the bill was dropped 50%-- it was better than nothing. see if your state has something like that? i am still praying for you that God will provide a way for you and your family. trust in him and he will guide your steps