Sometimes my mother says I should have married somebody for security tho I felt nothing for him. This was before I committed my life to Jesus, it was a dead relationship and I was a very different person. In other ways me and my mum have a good relationship but I hate when she says this, I might tell her my problems, she listens and helps and then says something like this, pray she will see a more eternal perspective and not say negative things like I made the wrong choices in life, it's causing a barrier between us. Thank you