I know what u r going through as i am going through the same thing. my husband now ex wanted a divorce a long time ago and he got one. our fighting lead to my children being put in state care as he hit me. I am lonely and depressed to as i have no friends as a result of this. my family and friends think i am a bad mother, wife person right now for the things i put my children through. my husband wanted kids but not the work that went along with it. all he wanted was the fun that went with it. i had the responsiblity of take care of them. he bought fun things for them while i paid for all the bills in the house he was the fun parent i was the working and bill paying disciplining parent. my son has adhd so i know exactly what u r going through my kids are almost 15 now twins boy/girl and they can make the decision if they want to go home or stay where they are. i will pray for u but pray for me. i like u yelled and go angry too and he got angry at me for not supporting him financially, physically and emotionally. he turned to other girls and hurt our marriage. God Bless Paula