Perhaps your drinking is making you anxious, why don't you stop going to bars and drinking. By doing so that woman may stop trying to go drinking with you too. You know that is not right in God's eyes and something terrible may come out of it.
Lord help this man stop drinking in bars, also have this woman stop wanting him to drink with him and move on. Stop this relationship before it gets out of hand and into a sinful situation. May they both come to know you as their Lord and Savior and allow you to guide their steps to a closer walk with you. I pray in Jesus name amen.