Tammy listen to the advice given to you, don't become a victim and do take care of yourself, do get a lawyer to help you in this situation with God's help too. Ask God to help you face what's ahead and to move forward without any fears. Yes pray for your husband, but don't try to have him do anything he doesn't want to do. Some times when we let them go God brings us someone better in His timing, or before you know he may come back repented of what he has done to you and ready to give his heart to the Lord. But don't let him walk all over you, stand strong to the adversities that may come your way with God's help. Read the book of Psalms and pray for God's guidance in your live, it brings us so much comfort in times like these.
Lord help Tammy in this situation, also give her the strength and peace that only comes from you when we face difficult times. Give her the wisdom she needs to face whatever comes her way, help her to leave her husband and her marriage in your hands, also to accept whatever your will is for life as she gets closer to you.
I pray in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior, amen.