Chvi maybe you are trying way too hard, or check your personality, or your appearance. Are you just trying to look for love in the net, or in bars, and nightclubs. If so you are looking in the wrong places. Why not try in church, gym, work, and through friends, or even some relative can guide you to someone available. I met mine through a co-worker who introduced me to his friend. We've been together now going on fifty years. First we became just friend, he would ask me sometimes to the theater or dinner. After a year he asked me to be his girlfriend, and a year later we got engaged and married the following year. So when we got married we already knew each other very well, and been best of friends ever since. I was 32 yrs old when I got married to him. It's better not to rush into something you may regret all your life.
Lord send Chvi a godly soulmate, and let them be very happy, and in love for all their lives. I pray in Jesus name amen.