Heather if you are pushing Steven, or running after him, even by calling him, you are really pushing him away from you more. You are also taking him away from God's hand again, because you think you can do it better than God? If you want God to answer your prayers, just keep on praying for Steven, and don't destroy the work God may already be doing in him. Your faith is in waiting, not pushing Steven, nor God's hand to do it when you want to. That is not faith, but being spoiled child.
Lord guide Heather to do the right thing and wait on you, for you are the only one who knows best for us. I pray in Jesus name amen.