I was under medication for several years, but was then told by my doctor that I seem to be all right again. I felt safe with the medication but also happy when I was told to stop taking it. Then I already knew that I could cope without it. I think that God has taken care of me both through the psychiatrist and by giving me time to think. He has even changed my circumstances so that I have been able to leave the past behind me. I pray that He will lead you two in a good way. God bless you!