(12-29-2016 03:59 PM)Guest Wrote:  May the Lord make your mother well again, but please learn from this situation, and start to plan for your life as an independent person, while your mother is still here, not after the leaves this world. You are already an adult that should had been on her own two feet long ago. Sorry to tell you this at this time, but I've seen many women who their husband left them and their children, they had nobody else to help them but the Lord. They turned to God and allowed him to guide their steps to where he wanted them to be. I was one of them, and thanks God here I am in my old age praising Him for the love he has for us and for being always there. Turn to God and give him your all and he will turn your sorrows to joy. I never finished high school and had never worked, but God led me to a good paying job with benefits. Use whatever talents you have to be able to find a good job. I was strong at math, so I was able to find myself a job where I worked for a company in the accounts receivable dept. From there I became the supervisor of that dept. I was able to work there for eighteen year. When I found a good man who married me, and I continued working to make sure I remained financially independent. If I did it and many other woman have done it, so can you, have faith in yourself with God's help. It's great to work and feel good when you accomplish a days work. I always felt whatever job I did, I did as for the Lord and never allowed whatever happened or I heard around me in the office to affect my job.
Lord help this person to see your light in their time of despair, guide them to a better life. Heal her mother and may she be able to come back home to her family. Have this woman start looking for a job, help her find a good paying one with good benefits. Comfort and strengthen her as you give her your peace. I pray this in Jesus name amen.

Thanks. I'm saved but not sure how to practically let God guide my steps. I feel there is something out there for me that I'm missing. Been praying for guidance for past three years and still don't know what career to do. I can't type well, don't like blood and sickness. I'd probably be good at helping people or baking, cooking maybe beauty but those Jobs aren't 9 to 5, not family friendly. Want 9 to 5. Im not good at science, good at basic math but not algebra, calculus etc.
Want to see my kids, go to church and have social life ( not wordly). Want to meet a Christian man and have Godly marriage. Don't have car to get around well but my mother has some money for used car if meant to be, needs to last a while to work and get around or go back to school, buses not great. Will probably have to work at Walmart since it's closest store around, don't know how I can live e on that or advance. Just don't know what God is trying to tell me to do or go. Thanks for advice. Need help to find out how to follow God's will, practically speaking. I love men, am not women's libber, believe man should be main provider a d leader but want a career for practical purposes because you never know if someone will leave or die even if beautiful, faithful Christian man unlike my unsaved husband. Just need liveable wage, maybe benefits and family hours. I don't want another three years to go by with no idea what to do. I'm not lazy or a leech, I really do want to work and be independent. Like to have normal nice relationship with mom not money based. Want a man for him not money either. Job is giant but only obstacle, don't want husband back unless he gets saved and God puts love for him in me. No love for him. Feel bad for kids but don't want him, bad marriage for 16 years. Thanks for prayers.