All I can tell you is that when we play with fire sooner or later we end getting burn, sometimes so bad that the scars that will last us all our life. But you still have hope, by asking Jesus for forgiveness, and if you guys love each other, why not get married?
Lord Jesus touch this woman's heart, may she ask you for forgiveness and allow you into her heart so she can feel not only the joy, which only you can give us, but may she see this baby as a blessing from above. Allow her to feel love and joy not only for herself, but for the baby too. Bless this baby Lord and keep it from all harm, as you teach its parents how to raise him and to love you. I pray in Jesus name amen.