Yes, everything ultimately is up to Him, but we must all do our parts to demonstrate our willingness to be lead by Him and to lead a life He would be proud of us for. Lord, please help Kay and the rest of us to constantly look to You for direction in all our steps, to think of You and Your teachings before making decisions, and to strive to live lives like that of Your good and perfect son, Jesus. In His name I pray. Amen