"the more you try the more you fail" this sounds like that your in a place where you have to let go and let GOD, give your situation to The Lord let him do all the work,invite him to pick up the pieces. are you ready to surrender to him, that is all that it takes SURRENDER you Love The Lord but now you have to let go of your life and let him take over, this doesn't happen over night it is a process but The Lord will never let you go even though you may feel weak, lonely or confused he is right their with you changing you for the better and he is doing it his way so just LET GO. prayer;Jesus i give you my life every area of it, I give you my current situation my failures and I now invite you in to take the steering wheel of my life to mould me into the person that you want me to be, I declare by faith from this day on that I am coming out of darkness into newness of life but not by my strength but by the spirit of The Lord in Jesus name I pray Amen. now pray it believe it and receive it by faith and talk to your situation. Example being, when I use to smoke cigarettes I would say- ' cigarettes in Jesus name I will defeat you' so talk to your situation and say you are defeated in Jesus name I will overcome in Jesus name for the one who lives in me is greater than the one who lives in the world praise The Lord and it will happen your mountain will be laid flat, so give your cares and worries to him and allow his hand to transform you into his glory, the GLORY that he has for you.