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dire straights marriage crisis
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beth_hager1
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dire straights marriage crisis
Hi,
I've been married for 28 years and have a 12 year old daughter. My husband says he knows but he isn't walking with the Lord. He's an alcoholic and denies it all he does in his spare time is sit in the garage and drink beer.
We have a lot of very bad history. He had an emotional affair with a woman who used to live across the street because she wasn't getting what she needed from her husband emotionally. He was hanging out with hard core alcoholics, people who visit prostitutes and drug users.
This was years ago but what hasn't changed is he's detached and only really cares about what's important to him. He still spends most of his spare time in the garage drinking beer. Some friends that aren't bad join him now and then. The bad people don't reappear because he knows I won't tolerate them. I already told him that I'd call the police, weld the garage door shut, if these types of people reappeared. He cares less now than he did then. I'm getting to where I'm giving up hope and if he want's to remain as he is then I just can't trust him.
I really want God to do something drastic or I want my husband to leave.
Please pray for Gods hand in this, I want what's best for my daughter but I hate living like this.
I will get my inheritance in the near future and as is I could not and wouldn't let him touch my money because of lack of trust.
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| 06-17-2014 11:41 PM |
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dire straights marriage crisis - beth_hager1 - 06-17-2014 11:41 PM
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