My wife is full of rage against me. She says everything is my fault all the time and I have made her life miserable. She calls me names (mad, narcissist, shithead) and says she does everything and I nothing (it is the opposite way). She lies to me and calls me liar. She doesn't want to go to specialist with me because "I would talk him/her to mys side" and because all the problems are in my head. She has hit me - and she says I did it to her (or it was my own fault). She has spit me and said that I would go to hell. She says I must change before we could talk (but won't tell what I should change). I am desperate. God, please help me and my family! (We have one child). I am having also health problems.