My husband and I were married for 7 months when I had to leave out of town to visit my sick father. Prior to that we have had challenges and we were going through adjustment period. There was one point where we argue about little things. I feel like he does not give me enough love and attention considering we are newlyweds and because of that, I become bitter. I always seek for his love and attention. He says he loves me but I always find it hard for me to feel it and for him to express and show it. At times, he is not consistent with his actions and does not follow-thru with any of our agreements which can get frustrating. There’s no third party involved either, but it seems like we are struggling to be on the same page. Few times we fight because of my frustrations towards him and I’ve said few things that can be hurtful and upfront.
When I came back from my trip, his things were all gone and a note saying” I need space”..but then I looked around the house and all of his things were gone. I knew he needed more than space. For someone to take all of his things, I knew he is not coming back. It was a torture and up until today It still hurts me. I haven’t seen him or spoken to him since then. He sent me an email twice saying this marriage is not gonna work and he admits he is at fault; he was frustrated with our arguments and said he cannot change himself overnight and this marriage will not work, and If I truly love him, to set him free. I must have sent him 50 emails begging him to talk to me; encouraging him to speak to me; and also encouraging him for us to work things out. NO reply. Nothing.
This time, I continue to seek myself through prayers and meditation. I know God has better plans why this happens, and if it is Satans work, I continue to pray God’s intervention to touch my husbands hurt and release him from evil so he can listen to God’s word. I also need all of your prayers for my husbands enlightenment and for him to have patience for us to work things out. Eight months of marriage is a short time for him to give up and I pray that he takes our vows infront of God more seriously than his ego and selfishness of abandoning our marriage.