My mother is 81 and needs a good caregiver to help me take care of her. I have been there for her for about 10 years and for the last 6 months, I have been very ill.

I have contacted an agency to come into her home and help with the things I can no longer do for her. She is not completely resistant to this. If only I/we can find a person that would work out for her, so that between the caregiver and I, we can help her stay in her own home and live with her kitty for as long as she wants to. Of course, I always want God's will in all aspects of this. So far we've had problems with the caregivers not showing up or not trying to understand how my mother wants/needs things to be done, at 25.00 per/hour (which she can afford). My mother has fired so far 2 of them in one month.
If I could, I'd still do everything for her. But I have a diagnosis myself, and awaiting tests to come back. I worry about her a lot because I am the only person in our family that can do anything for her. I do want to be able to visit her, as a daughter again, and not only a caregiver to her. When and if I become able again, I will try to start doing some of what I have done in the past for her, (everything).
Please help her/us by asking for God's will and hope for my mother. Thank you, Bless you in Jesus, Elizabeth