My husband who is a alcoholic....was sober for 10 months in 2012...longest time he ever had been sober) with the death of his father( best friend/drinking buddy) he spirled down with in 4 months...stopped for awhile and is back at it again. He has anxiety attacks that are bad and he belives that they are from God. ( he has been a beliver longer than me ) all though I don't belive this I go with it because anxiety attacks deliverd him from Drugs.... We NEED God work in our lives I cant handle the mean drunk (verbal) it's not who he is ...it's not who we are PLEase HELP