I am sorry if this is too sensitive for this site. I did a google search for this place. I am members of others forums, but the request is about the other forums, so I cannot really post a request in those forums.

I was raped a couple of years ago and still deal with the pain daily. Today is one of the worst days that I've had in a while. A young girl, that has claimed that I am her friend and her "adopted sister", declared today publicly on the forum that rape victims aren't victims at all because they bring it upon themselves. After all, it's the girls in the low tops and short skirts that are the ones raped. It is the immorality and immodesty of women that make them get into a situation that causes them to be raped. She is blaming victims. She's blaming me.

I don't know how to deal with this situation especially being that I'm on staff with this forum. I don't know how to deal with this because I'm in so much pain and fighting back constant flashbacks. Please, please, pray for me.