Hi My ex wife cheated on me for 12 years 1 year from our marriage i am now engaged to be wed on the 28 september 2013 and are very happy but i have a big problem and i don't want my new wife to suffer from my past but whenever she is alone at home i start worrying about what she's doing and it gets so bad that my whole body start shaking and i get chest pains of worrying what she does. it's eating me from inside and its unfair towards her. i have not told her about it and wont but i need help this is not normal.... Please Help