I believe my husband has anxiety trouble. He with holds sex from me for many years. I did not know that when I married him but I believe that he had the same problem with his ex-wife and she threatened to have affairs until finally she did have one and he left her when his farm went into foreclosure. He left her because she finally had an affair. I am a christian but I feel that he is passive aggressive and he is so defensive that I cannot talk to him without being criticized for every word I say. This has been going on for many years. He is a christian also. Just so you know.