Dear Guest, I pray for you and your husband in the Mighty Name of Yeshua (Jesus) that through this trial you would both draw closer to Yeshua and TRUST Him in ALL things. The Army is a very tough career. I know because I am an Army Chaplain's wife and it takes a woman of much faith and independent spirit to be married to a soldier. I know you are this woman. The first thing I feel led to tell you is that you MUST keep your own spirits up by having a career of your own or volunteering or a great hobby. You need something of your own to do as unto the Lord to help others. Start thinking about it seriously. Keep praying daily for your husband. God will answer your prayers in time according to His will. Trust Him with ALL your heart. He loves you and your husband very much and He will answer both your prayers. Go to Chapel often or find a good Bible-believing church. You and your husband need believing friends to pray with you and encourage you. It is never good to go it alone. May the Lord Bless you both and lead and guide you both in your lives.