Dear Moses, I pray for you in the Name of Jesus, Name Above All Names, that you would grow in Him and be the man that He desires you to be. Read the Bible daily. Ask the Lord what you should do daily. He will help you in every way if you truly want Him to. I pray for your wife, that she would believe upon the Lord and also read her Bible and learn what the Lord would have her to do. Find out what God's Word says about your situation and OBEY it. Man cannot help you, only God's Word.