(02-15-2012 02:20 PM)mariechen Wrote:  me and my husband are going through a very difficult time. we are trying to conceive our first child but struggling! i know the Lord's plans are above our plans but im having difficulty to understand why this is happening to us, even though i do know if its not the Lords time its better... please pray that if its our Lords will that we will conceive, and if its not the right time that He will fill me with His peace and contentment! thank you so much!

The Holy Spirit has spoken; because you are feeling the way you feel right now being unsure and does not have peace with the Lord whatever God's will is then it is not your time yet. Praise the Lord, He is saving you for what is to come. If you think by having a child will save, better, bring joy, etc...to your marriage, it is not always the case. Learn to listen to the Holy Spirit by quieting yourself and starts praising God Almighty. Learn and study the Bible, eat every Word of God and bind them in your heart. You are not ready. Trust the Lord.