You want God's answers to your prayer then starts praising God and glorify His name. Stop speaking negative things about your husband. Ask God to bless your husband and to fulfill God's purposes for his life for God's glory. Bless your husband instead of talking about the negative things. I know it is hard to do to bless someone who is unlovable. Remember this...Jesus died for us so we have to a choice to saved or to be dammed as you've said. God loves us even when we are unlovable. Also, you need to cast that spirit husband of yours. He is the one keeping your husband away from you because he is evil and jealous. You opened a door for this spirit husband to enter into your spirit many years ago. Repent and cast him out in Jesus' name.