]My husband is threatening to divorce me because we didn't have sex on his birthday. This after he gave me nothing at all on my birthday. This is the nature of our relationship. Very one-sided.

Also, he's angry because I won't swing with him, or attend orgies. I don't believe that belongs in a marriage.

Today, he said he's done, and told me to "Go to hell" over and over again. He just kept repeating it.

Right now, I'm the sole bread winner of the family, because he is ill with severe heart-disease and a few other health problems. I've been taking care of him for awhile now, and all goes unappreciated.

Maybe I should just let him file for divorce already. He keeps threatening it, but never does it.

Please pray for God's guidance, and for his outcome. I want to be a good wife, step-mom, and Christian, and feel I'm doing the best I can to hold everything together. I know I'm not perfect, but I try my hardest every day.

I'm a faithful, hard-working, loving wife. Please.