Jesus says, "a house divided cannot stand", there is a spirit of division in your home. We are to lift one another up, not tear each other down. As your wife, she needs to understand that God is going to hold her accountable for every action that she has in your marriage. What ever dart that satan is throwing in your marriage, keep lifting her up in prayer and let God do the changing. We can't change anyone. But, our heavenly Father has the power to remove the evil, and replace it with the good that you came to love and eventually married. Remember to call on the name of our Lord whenever storms arise. I too have many storms to face. But, I must keep my eyes on Jesus in order to overcome. If college is for you, you just trust God to see you through. If you pray, don't worry. If you worry, why pray? Hebrews 11:1, "NOW, faith is the subtance of things hoped for and the evidence of things not seen." Just have faith that all things will work for the good to those that love the Lord. Keep trusting in him. Do not call your wife rotten. Satan is rotten. It is his demons that have taken control of the wife you love and married.