I've cheated on my wife for very selfish reasons, by me doing that it has broken up my family, I have 2 kids, son(4) and daughter (3). I really want to save my marriage. My wife want a divorce. I really don't want my marriage to end like this, I love my wife with all my heart. I hope we can get together and live by God's word....

Father, why would a man who truly loves his wife treat her so carelessly? I ask that you minister to this man's spirit and clean him up Lord. I ask that you make him understand that sometimes saying I am sorry is not enough...that there are consequences for poor choices and selfish behavior. Father in your love for him, show this man that his errors have not only grieved his wife but also you and the holy Spirit. Father let him seek Your forgiveness and your guidance...first and foremost in becoming a better man...and then a better husband. Let him face himself Father and see the tremendous upset his behavior has caused. Touch this wife and heal her hurting heart. Father draw her near that you may comfort her. Help her to forgive this man...because forgiveness is not for him...but for You...as you have commanded that we do so. Let her release her anger to You that you may sooth her angry mind and heart. Heal her wounds Father and help her to make the right decision...the one that is right in Your sight and within Your plan for her life. In Jesus name...Amen!

In Jesus name I pray for this husband, father, son I pray that you help him see that sometimes the choices we make for an hour or two can hurt not only you , the father and his family for a season, I pray his wife is healed in Jesus name that she allows herself to heal and overcome anything that is not of you Lord, I pray for the children to be keep safe and whole in you Lord. Father I know its hard to want to forgive someone but its harder to ask forgiveness when we have done wrong This man comes to ask for your forgiveness I pray that his heart becomes pure before you and that he becomes clean Lord, that his life becomes one after your heart not his, I pray his wife can come before you and lay the pain and hurt she is enduring at the foot of the cross and she can relaease in order to move forward and forgive. I pray the decision she makes is thru you and you only Lord because without it there will be no real direction, her family unit needs restored and healed I pray your will for her life and you help her thru this season. I pray you hear her cries and heal her broken spirit Lord, in Jesus name , and yes deal with her husband not from words but the heart. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

Dear Lord Jesus,
Marriage is a holy institution between you, the husband, and the wife. Satan loves to destroy marriages inorder to break apart that union. But I know that a three-fold cord is not easily broken. So, let's start over. This time Lord, we call you to be head of this family, then the husband and then the wife and then their children, in that order. Calvin is to cover his wife and family. So let's get him in his rightful position as a man of God. There cannot be too masters in this situation. The wife has to be able to follow her husband's lead. All the constant bickering and arguing aren't helping these children at all. So, The wife has to feel that her husband is leading her in the right direction -- God's direction, for her family or she is not obligated to follow him. Lord show the husband that he is the protector of his family and that if he is out of place the whole thing falls apart -- leaving room for the enemy to come in. Which is just like saying, come on in Satan, you can have my family and do whatever you will. Lord Jesus, don't let him give up on his marriage. Help him to start putting you first in his life right now. If the two of them need to be separated while you do this work in him, then so be it. But Lord, don't let him wait till his wife decides to divorce him or not, let him begin now. Help him to start filling his mind with the truths of your word and getting to know you for himself. Attack his heart Lord. Let him begin to be the type of man he wants to be if his wife won't divorce him. Let him be that way no matter what happens, let that be his mindset. Not to do it to keep his family, but to do it to be the man God called him to be. Lord, and as he is becomming closer to you, he will begin to see the wonderful changes that are starting to happen in his life as well. In his marriage and with his children and especially in his dependence on you. Fix it Lord. Let him love you more, than anything and than anyone and all this will work out extremely well for all of them. Bless you Lord Jesus.
In Your Name,
Amen.